spudfarm wrote:agree. if you found this forum to ask a simple question and are new to forums you would have made a topic about it.
Well actually when I first came here I did a lot of searching before even posting....pimpmann22 was intimidating
With that thread jrrdw, we actually helped him... a lot. Before we even suggested he started searching because he just kept coming back for more. Even when I told him the low-down on Spudfiles... that you should learn it yourself because it's the best way... I even helped him with the questions he asked.
Then he just came out and insulted me like he had insulted Maniac. This guy was on a high-horse and thought he could get away with anything.
You see, if you keep giving new members information, they're going to think it's alright to keep asking for it. But as soon as you try and send them in the right direction, they get hostile.
I think it's better to just be firm from the start so you're not making them confused. Those who decide to leave, well that's their problem. The ones that stay, are usually good members 90% of the time.
So it's kind of a filtering system.