My first valve was a coaxial using 1.25" end cap in 2" pipe sealing against a 1.5" seat. (all of those sizes are nominal sizes of PVC) Due to my inexperience at the time, I at first tried to pilot it with a 1/4" ball valve, which needless to say, was a fail. After stepping my pilot up to a 3/4" ball valve and then a 3/4" sprinkler I got the valve to fire reliably, but only at pressures higher than 40psi, any less and it all hissed out the pilot.
More surprising was my recent copper gun using a barrel sealing piston in a tee. The piston was epoxy (wonder where I got that idea

One thing all my valves have had in common is a very small piston:seat ratio. I purposely built them this way so that the pilot would have to be almost entirely exhausted before the valve would open, leading to very fast opening times. I found this very effective on the PVC coax mentioned above once I switched to a large pilot valve, but I'm afraid I am losing performance due to air leaking around the piston during the increased time the pilot is open and the valve hasn't triggered.
So in planning my next project (which may turn out good enough to post on here) I'm wondering how big is big enough for the pilot? The valve is going to be a somewhat different design than most pneumatics on this site, I'll post a drawing later. The piston will slide inside either 1.5" or 2" PVC and seal against either 1", 1.25", or 1.5" PVC, I'm still deciding on the ideal ratio.
I don't blame you if you didn't read all that, so to sum up: for 1.25" to 2" size piston valves, what size pilot is necessary for good performance?